The Indoor Camping Party

Throwing an indoor sleep over camping party for kids featuring fun campfire foods such as Cheez Whiz soup, s'mores and Dough Boys as well as interactive group games, campfire sing-a-longs and constellation watching is a great idea. A sleepover camping party for kids makes an ideal birthday party, or it can just be a way to introduce younger children to the concept. You can of course just throw this type of party out doors but all you really need is a room that is.  big enough to support enough pup tents to accommodate the number of children invited. 

If you have a fireplace you can roast hotdogs, foil wrapped fries and s'mores over the flames. With a little planning and some simple ground rules, your children’s sleepovers will be a real hit. 

First, you’ll want to come up with a plan for the evening. Have your child think of a list of sleepover mates to invite. A good rule is that your child can only invite the number of kids that corresponds with their age. For example, if your child is 5, they may invite 5 guests. The recipes below are for a children's party of 8 or more, as that is how many hot dog buns come in a package! 

Next, you’ll want to make an enticing indoor campout invitation. One clever idea is to buy a rubber stamp in a shape that corresponds with camping theme and stamp on the front of plain cardstock. Enclosing a little laser flashlight or plastic flashlight on a keychain is a nice pre-party gift.  Fill in the time, place, date, and make it clear what items each child will need to bring. Asking them to each brings their own flashlight and pajamas are a good idea. The cheapest thing is to borrow the tents you need from the neighbors or ask the child's parents to bring one in advance. 

Also on the invitation you will want to give the parent's some idea of the menu. This can help them identify foods their children might be allergic to.  Ideas for food include Bubble Tea, Cheez Whiz soup, Chili Cheese Fries and Banana Boats. Hamburgers, hot dogs and beans can make great main courses. I

t is probably not a good idea to play music at this type of party as it might disturb the neighbors. However, if you play guitar you can always engage the children in a sing along.  A good game instead is to have each child make up a ghost story as they sit inside their pup tents. If they are not too young you can also encourage them to read from a book of ghost stories. Of course this entire party can be held out doors in the summer. The thing with outdoor parties is that you need strict supervision of the children by adults especially if you have a swimming pool in your back yard. However it is really nice to also cook those hamburgers and hot dogs over a real fire if it is warm enough.

Feeling Guilty About Daycare

Should you consider putting your kids in day care?  The answer is yes unless you feel too guilty to do it.

Guilt is definitely a problem for some parents when they are first considering daycare simply because they were raised by a mother who stayed at home.  The truth is that your child might be better adjusted if you are at home but sometimes financial necessities make it crucial to enroll your child or children in a place where they will be cared for by someone else all day.  The problem can be getting your kids into the right daycare – meaning that it is one that you can afford and one that you like. Another consideration is of course the location of the daycare. It needs to be a quality daycare that is also close to you. Of course not all of these requirements can always be found in one daycare. 

Sometimes you have to sacrifice one perk for the lack of another and that is where the guilt can really kick in. It is not nice to think about your kids being put through a long commute home every day or less than delicious food because of budget or location considerations but sometimes you can't help these things. 

The best daycare for your child might also depend on what stage of potty training and the like that they are like. Some daycares may offer things like potty training and others may not. This is the kind of thing you want to check into because you don't want your child to be developmentally delayed because of a lack of attention from daycare staff. If you are feeling guilty one thing to think about is how well socialized your children will be as the result of being put in daycare. Whether the daycare is great or crummy your child will be exposed to other types of children and different situations. This could teach them tolerance and coping skills that they might otherwise not develop if their mother at home raised them only.  You are teaching them how to get along with others which is really going to benefit them once they hit grade skill. 

In essence what you are experiencing, as guilt may not be guilt at all but rather a reluctance to let your child grow and beco0me a person on his own terms.  It can make you feel like time really is flying by fast. One thing about most daycares, especially the really good ones are that they do not let you pay monthly or week-by-week sometimes. Y

ou might need to book a spot in a quality daycare by putting down a deposit for the whole year. This of course can be expensive so make sure that putting your kids in the daycare is what you really want to do because you may not be able to get your money back.