Debunking Designer Running Shoes Again!

I know I have mentioned this before but you are wasting your money on fancy designer brand name running shoes and yet another research study has proved this.  I have suspected that you have been paying for nothing more than a name for many years. Now an article in the British Journal of Sports Medicine called “Do you get value for money when you buy an expensive pair of running shoes?”  has confirmed those suspicions for me.

Research has shown that you don't have to spend a big bundle of money to get good runners. Christian Nordquist, the author of the article discusses a research study where nine separate brands of running shoes were tested to see which was the best brand for the money.  They tested the shoes for durability and also in terms of being anatomically good for the fit by measuring how much pressure was put on the balls of the feet when they were worn.  

I was not surprised to find out that researchers found that there were no significant differences in plantar pressure between different brands and there were no major differences between the expensive and cheaper shoes.   The pressure was measured by sensors planted on the soles of the feet of 43 different people who were wearing the shoes to test them for durability and other factors.  It seems that even a shoe that was designed to be really sophisticated and good for your foot was not really that different from the 39 dollar running shoe in the first place. 

As many people have always suspected, you may be paying for brand name and status rather than performance when paying for a pricey pair of cross trainers. However even though we now know this there are some truths when it comes to buying quality running shoes. For one thing there are definitely some shoes out there that are knock offs and are made out of cardboard. You should still look for durable comfortable shoes that are made out of a long lasting material and that have a molded sole so that you do not damage your arch when you wear them. You should also look for running shoes with thick soles with the appropriate treads for what you are planning to do while wearing them. For instance you may not need a really thick sole if you are just walking in them but you might need it thicker if you are hiking through the woods in them. 

The hardest thing I find is talking my kids out of wanting some name brand running shoe they have seen on television. Sometimes they will settle for a knock off of a more expensive brand and sometimes not. It depends on your kid. Usually it is a less expensive designer brand that they will settle for rather than the purchase of the imitations. This is because kids at school nowadays are really good at spotting 'fakes!' 

Feeling Guilty About Daycare

Should you consider putting your kids in day care?  The answer is yes unless you feel too guilty to do it.

Guilt is definitely a problem for some parents when they are first considering daycare simply because they were raised by a mother who stayed at home.  The truth is that your child might be better adjusted if you are at home but sometimes financial necessities make it crucial to enroll your child or children in a place where they will be cared for by someone else all day.  The problem can be getting your kids into the right daycare – meaning that it is one that you can afford and one that you like. Another consideration is of course the location of the daycare. It needs to be a quality daycare that is also close to you. Of course not all of these requirements can always be found in one daycare. 

Sometimes you have to sacrifice one perk for the lack of another and that is where the guilt can really kick in. It is not nice to think about your kids being put through a long commute home every day or less than delicious food because of budget or location considerations but sometimes you can't help these things. 

The best daycare for your child might also depend on what stage of potty training and the like that they are like. Some daycares may offer things like potty training and others may not. This is the kind of thing you want to check into because you don't want your child to be developmentally delayed because of a lack of attention from daycare staff. If you are feeling guilty one thing to think about is how well socialized your children will be as the result of being put in daycare. Whether the daycare is great or crummy your child will be exposed to other types of children and different situations. This could teach them tolerance and coping skills that they might otherwise not develop if their mother at home raised them only.  You are teaching them how to get along with others which is really going to benefit them once they hit grade skill. 

In essence what you are experiencing, as guilt may not be guilt at all but rather a reluctance to let your child grow and beco0me a person on his own terms.  It can make you feel like time really is flying by fast. One thing about most daycares, especially the really good ones are that they do not let you pay monthly or week-by-week sometimes. Y

ou might need to book a spot in a quality daycare by putting down a deposit for the whole year. This of course can be expensive so make sure that putting your kids in the daycare is what you really want to do because you may not be able to get your money back.