Hoodia for Post-Partum Weight

If you have gained weight after pregnancy you might want to consider taking hoodia. It has worked with me. The key is to take it in a safe way. Then you will be guaranteed to lose the weight in a healthy way.

Like any type of weight loss aid or supplement you are the safest if you use it in moderation. It is hard to harm yourself taking hooida but it can lead to anorexia if you take it daily for a large number of months. This is because it cuts hunger so effectively that you do not notice that you are losing a lot of weight. Not feeling the hunger helps disassociate you from your body.

You can lose as much as pound a day on hoodia but you do not want to go for that. Your body will soon hit a level called a plateau. The plateau is the point at which you cannot possibly lose any more. It will go into 'famine' mode and you will actually conserve pounds. It is a natural protective thing that your body does. It is not a good idea to lose too much weight like that as it can cause disorders.

The reason that I recommend it for moms who are a bit down and fat after giving birth is that it does cause you to feel slightly elated. Hoodia is a bit of a natural antidepressant but not so much so that you feel like you are on crack.

Hoodia can be taken every day and you can take big amounts if you like because it is not classifieds as drug. It is named a food. People in Africa eat it every day to stave off hunger and they have done this for centuries. In it's natural state it tastes like a very bitter melon. That is why us Westerners take it in pill form.

Still you need to be careful with this stuff. Research done in Africa shows that if you eat nothing but hoodia for three months you will eventually starve to death. You just won't feel the malnutrition set in.

The key to staying healthy while on hoodia and in fact on any type of diet that involves taking a supplement is to ingest a variety of different foods. Hoodia is a food but it is not considered to be a 'whole' food like wheat grass. It's value instead is to do with losing the pounds.

The biggest danger of taking Hoodia is losing too much weight too rapidly. You can lose ten pounds a week if you are the type of person who takes Hoodia and completely loses all appetite. However this type of rapid weight loss is very hard on the brain, muscles, nerves and heart and you could die if you were not careful with it With some individuals it takes as long as two weeks to work and with others the appetite suppressing effect seems to happen immediately. I did not take the recommended dosage at first and only took one pill a day. That resulted in about a one two pound weight loss for me a day.

The Competitive Mom

The thing I can't stand about some of these celebrity moms is how over identified they are with their children. The child is simply not allowed to have its own identity. A good example of this is Surie Cruise. The two are parading around in identical Armani outfits and Katie recently got a haircut to match her daughter's. The problem is that in Katie's case she looks more like she is trying to compete with her child than anything. In fact in some photos it is hard to tell who looks younger, Katie or Surie?

Some moms would probably really disagree with me but I think it is a big mistake to make your kid into your twin. It demons you by making you look younger and it makes the kid wonder who the parents are. You should not try to be narcissistic with your child unless you want to develop a full-blown codependency with him or her. Even real twins are not encouraged to dress alike or wear similar haircuts these days because it is toxic psychologically. A child needs to develop his or her own sense of self.

Another example of a mom that competes with her kid is Lindsay Lohan's mom. This is a mother that dresses like her daughter, goes out to all of the same night clubs as her and basically appropriates her identity wherever possible. She also drinks a lot and is into the celerity lifestyle of all night partying so it is not surprising that Lindsay turned out to be such a lush. This type of mother daughter competition is becoming so severe in celebrity land that even Dr. Phil did a show about it.

A competitive mom usually starts showing their jealousy of their own child quite young by stealing their friends, hobbies and styles of clothing. This often extends into adolescence when flirting with the boyfriend's beco0mes an issue.

According to an episode done on the Today show this t type of syndrome is more common than we think. The one gunmanship continues into adult hood. The mother makes comments that are a stab to her daughter's heart sitting there competing for the attentions of her husband and children.

I guess the moral of this story is that if you do not have a strong personality or emotional center than you probably should not have children. The damage you can do to a daughter by being competitive with her is immense. Jennifer Aniston is also a very famous example of this and so was Anna Nicole Smith. Mothers who competed with them with the result raised both that both were dumped completely from their daughter's lives.

The key is to let your daughter be who she is going to be and not to try and control her by insisting you wear the same clothes or have the same haircut. Remember that your child is not an extension of you. She is much more than that.