Why Moms Should Quit Drinking

If you are a mom you should quit drinking, not because you are a drunk but because it is bad for women. Alcohol is an activity that is completely acidic in nature.
I am not suggesting you quit alcohol altogether unless it is a problem. There are many studies out now that suggest that we derive some health benefits from moderate drinking—to the heart, the nerves, to easing self-consciousness. Drinking does help us manage stress and can help us socialize and break the ice with the opposite sex.
However it is also unhealthy in many ways as it impairs our judgment and slows down our cognitive responses. In slightly higher amounts it can land us in situations that we’d never put up with if we were sober.
Drinking alcohol can also lead us down a fairly slippery slope, where that glass or two of wine a few times a week becomes a glass or two every day without our noticing, and pretty soon we become addicted.
Alcohol abuse can interfere with the brain’s chemical messengers, specifically the neurotransmitters serotonin, GABA (gammaaminobutyricacid), and dopamine. When you mess with these transmitters it affects our moods, our ability to think clearly, and the signals the brain sends to the body. It’s not a stretch to say that how our neurotransmitters are functioning affects how we experience the world and ourselves. We suffer from distorted thinking and bad moods.
Serotonin affects our emotions, memory, appetite, body temperature and endocrine regulation. Dopamine is involved with feelings of pleasure and reward. GAB A is involved in memory and cognitive functioning. Alcohol affects all of these factors in a negative way.
Alcohol can also be hard on our metabolism. Metabolism is the process by which the substances we eat and drink are converted into other compounds, less toxic than the original, some more.
As our bodies treat alcohol as a toxin, a poison to be purged (because, for your liver, that’s exactly what it is.) It is detoxified and removed from the blood through the process of oxidation. The liver is where most of the metabolism takes place.
However the liver can metabolize alcohol more slowly than the body absorbs it into the bloodstream so a certain amount nearly always affects the body and the brain.
Curiously, alcohol does not raise your blood sugar level in and of itself it will actually lower it. What does raise our blood sugar level is the carbohydrates in booze.
Your liver treats the alcohol like a toxin and goes about the detoxification process whenever it is in your body. It puts off releasing glycogen until it is complete. This process leads to hypoglycemia.
Alcohol causes stress-related issues in the body as well. One way is by raising cortisol levels. Cortisol is the 'stress hormone,” and elevated levels of it can destabilize blood sugar levels and also add fat to the body.
Alcohol also depletes vitamins and B12 as well as folic acid—nutrients the body needs to cope with stress—and can interfere with REM sleep, leaving you less rested than when you wake up in the morning.
When you take a break from alcohol your body is again able to recover from stress on its own without artificial stimulation. You are able to keep dopamine in balance so your brain isn’t always craving a drink to temporarily elevate its levels.
The fact is, if given the chance, the brain has an amazing capacity to read just neurotransmitter levels and effectiveness all by itself but only if you stop alcohol.
Also, by reducing the toxin load when you quit drinking, you give your liver the opportunity to regenerate itself (unless it has already experienced serious scarring—cirrhosis—from heavy drinking).
If you steer clear of alcohol for twenty one days your body will reset and find its own balance again.
If you’ve been avoiding wine, beer, and spirits. Here’s what you can enjoy:
• Sparkling water with a twist of lemon or lime or a bit of unsweetened pomegranate, grape or blueberry juice
• Any kind of chilled herbal tea served in a festive glass
• Good, old-fashioned water with a lemon, lime or tangerine slice
If you do drink, say for a special occasion like your birthday try having that glass of white wine with some sparkling water. Diluted alcohol is best.

Why You Should Give Your Kids A Massage

Giving your kids a massage is more than just a way of expressing affection. Rubbing your child's skin and manipulating his or her muscles has many benefits.
With massage, you can include all of the following positives:
Massage is deeply relaxing for the recipient;
• It is a holistic form of treatment that treats every part of the being, including the physical body, the mind and the soul;
• It relieves tension, stress and anxiety, as well as encouraging relaxed muscles;
• It increases your awareness of and respect for your own body, which in itself has significant health benefits;
• It helps to improve blood flow and assists your body in its efforts to detoxify itself
• It helps promote speedier repair of damaged tissues and of course alleviates the pain that these damaged parts can cause;
• It aids digestion and strengthens your immune system;
• It imparts a general sense of heightened well being and above all else, there is very little that I know of that makes you or your child feel better than a good massage!
As you have just read, there are many physical benefits that you can enjoy as a result of a good massage but there are some additional, less obvious benefits that are specifically appropriate to those in a relationship too.
The fact is, massage can play a vital role in pulling two partners ever closer together primarily because massage (from the point of view of the partner providing the massage) is all about giving love and approval.
Massage is a superbly effective method of non-verbal communication that allows each person to get to know, understand and appreciate their partner far more intimately on a physical level, way beyond anything that they might ever know about one another without massage. I have found it useful for when my teenage daughter has decided to be all non-verbal and difficult. Sometimes the literal pat on the shoulder means so much to her I can see the tears in her eyes.
Therapists often report that people get more in a confessional mode when they are being massaged. This to me means that my child is more inclined to tell me the truth about what is going on her life because she is all relaxed and loosened up.
Furthermore, you do not have to be a world class massage practitioner for you and your child to gain huge benefits from the use of massage in your relationship either. Almost by definition, if you practice massage with your kid on a daily basis, you will become the best massage therapist they have ever had without ever really trying simply because you know better than anyone else ever could do.