Tips for a Natural Birth

Are you into the idea of a natural birth? How you choose to have your baby is a very personal decision. Everyone delivers a baby differently and natural childbirth is not for everybody mainly because it can hurt! However proponents of natural childbirth believe that it helps you have a healthier child.
One thing you might want to do is take prenatal yoga classes. These help you with the pain management and physical strength. The yoga also keeps you healthy, calm and strong.
You should also practice the vaginal strengthening exercises called Kegels. These will help you gain more positive awareness of the body and help prepare the birth canal for natural childbirth.
You can also write a birth plan. Many templates for this are available online. It helps your doctor and delivery team assess what you want and what your needs are.
You should also talk to your doctor ahead of time and get knowledge of all of the pain medications that you will be offered. These options need to be discussed with your doula and your partner before you arrive at the hospital.
Take childbirth classes. Many midwives and doulas offer these classes. It will help you visualize your labour and prepare for it in the best way possible.
It can also help you to get a prenatal massage. This helps keep your body and muscles loose and your mind and soul in a positive frame of mind.
Use aromatherapy oils such as lavender rose and yang yang to calm yourself down and oils such as grapefruit, spearmint and orange to keep yourself energized. You can buy a small fabric pouch and keep yourself stocked with the oils you need to keep yourself in a good mood. Simply sniffing a bit of ginger oil can help balance you and take away any feelings of stress caused natal nausea.
It also helps to discuss your labor with someone else in your family like your sister or your mother. This si because people who are related tend to have experiences that are in common when giving birth. This can help prepare you both emotionally and physically for what could happen.
You should familiarize yourself with how contractions work. One of the benefits of natural childbirth is the experience of sensations that you will never feel again during any other experience in your life. Even though contractions are painful your body will release pain relieving endorphins to counteract those effects. Another benefit is supposed to be that the length of labor can be shortened if you do not use pain relieving or labor inducing drugs.
Natural childbirth is not for everyone. It certainly was not for me. Listen to your body and your gut instincts. If you do not think you can handle the pain then do not go for the option of having natural labor!

Paying A Nanny A Fair Salary

As I mentioned a few days ago I was thinking of hiring a nanny for my kids so I can go back to work which means I have had to do some research into how much they expect to be paid and what I can afford to pay.
So what exactly is a fair salary to pay a nanny or domestic couple? Well there are laws that are specific to hiring this kind of help so the first thing to do is look at what is legal and required in your locale. There are also usually state laws or provincial laws as well that you must abide by or you are exploiting the help. Not paying attention to these laws can lead to serious troubles. It is critical that you are aware of your legal requirements in your area in order to lawfully hire and employ someone in your household. Hiring nannies is not the casual labour that you think it is…
Most civilized countries have some kind of Fair Wage Act that establishes what the minimum wage should be, what overtime pay should be, record keeping and how the child labour laws affect part time and full time workers and then on top of it there are probably laws for workers.
For you there may be some benefits to having the nanny actually move in… In some countries live-in-domestic workers are exempt from overtime pay but household staff stay outside the home must always be paid overtime pay. Not having to necessarily pay the overtime is why live in nannies and live in couple jobs are usually best.
Whether or not you have to pay vacation, holiday, sick or severance pay may depend on the region in which you live. You might have to give pay raises at regular time intervals or that you give money along with a discharge notice. All employers need to make sure that they are complying with the laws set in their locality.
In almost every country in the world you are required to keep records of wages and hours. You should also play fair as if you are providing nanny or live in couple jobs. Although positions and work places differ in the household employment industry and there is no real standard besides minimum wage you should try and pay your nanny or couple jobs what they are worth. In other words the salary, compensation and benefits need to relict the experience and background of the nanny.
It is also important that the employee's compensation be detailed fully – including vacation reimbursement for gas, which pays for auto insurance, and more or things could get messy. It cannot be stressed enough that this is not just casual labour. When it comes to any payment to employees, it should always be made by check so that both parties have a record. Every employer is responsible for the timely payment or deposit of several federal, state and local taxes.
The obvious benefit of paying well for nannies or domestic couple jobs is that they will treat you and your children better. You do not want to deal with a resentful worker or one that may burn out or worse – report you as abusive to the authorities. Keeping things straight keeps everyone happy…