No Cold Medicines for Young Children!

This is breaking news so I hope all moms will read this blog. Whatever you do don’t give over-the-counter cold remedies to kids under four years of age. It is dangerous for them. All you should really do is just try and keep the child warm, calm and comfortable.
Two big drug companies that make over the counter cold and flu remedies like Pediacare and Dimetapp announced that the ingredients in these cold medicines can affect kids in an adverse way. They have also been especially warned about not giving kids antihistamines to help them sleep. In fact in newer drug packaging there is new instructions telling you that these types of medications are definitely not for children under the age of four.
In 2007 a similar revamp of dosing recommendations took place when the cold and flu medicine manufacturers produced instructions that said that this medication should not be given to children under the age of two. However here is something that you should also know. Pediatricians actually petitioned the FDA to ban medications like these for kids under age six. So if you have a child under six years old then you might want to consider this because it is common knowledge that the FDA tends to serve the interests of the drug companies. It is interesting that once again they did not follow the recommendations of pediatricians. However you can make the choice of following those recommendations and not putting your child at risk.
The reason pediatricians asked for this is because there is no evidence that these products work for kids under six years of age but there is definitely evidence that these medicines cause side effetsin large kids. The side effects include hives, drowsiness and unsteady walking. Over seven thousand kids a year end up in U.S. hospitals after overdosing accidentally or on purpose on these medicines. Most of these kids were curious toddlers who drank the medicines.
Part of the logic of kind of banning it for children under six was all about reducing the risk of overdose as well. If the stuff is not around the home the kids are less likely to grab it and ingest it.
Many doctors say you should not give these remedies to older children either. They could be doing more harm than good. However the drug manufacturers said they are also introducing new child proof caps and spouts so that it is more difficult for these children to have an overdose.
Leading cough and cold brands include Dimetapp, Pediacare, Robitussin, Triaminic, Little Colds and versions of Tylenol that have ingredients to treat cold symptoms. To be on the safe side I am going to avoid giving my kids these medications for now.

Books for Troubled Kids

Sometimes you end up trying to help a kid that is going through a very troubled time in their life because of a divorce or a death. It could be your own child or the neighbour's child but you still want to help. However sometimes you feel completely helpless because it is hard to communicate with the upset child or see the world through his or her eyes. Thankfully there are some books out there on the market that can assist you with this type of situation.
A common situation is the one where you end up being the stepmother to a new kid through marriage either because of a death or divorce. There is a really good book on this topic on the market. It is called 'The Good Stepmother: A Practical Guide' and it by two women who have been there. The authors are Patricia Adams and Karen Savage. Every issue is discussed in this book including the ex spouse, children who act out their resentment and money issues. You are basically taught how to handle these situations so nobody is hurt, resentful or traumatized as a result of the big change. The chapters on how to handle the ex are also very important as you can save the children involved a lot of stress during the divorce and remarriage process if the two of you can learn how to get along.
Some kids really have a hard time adjusting to a divorce. A child can isolate and refuse to communicate to you. In this case you might want to purchase 'What's Going to Happen to Me? When Parents Separate or Divorce. This is a paperback by Eda LeShan that is directed to kids who are eight years of age or older and who are hurt and mystified by the divorce process. It is just a great all purpose book about the subject to give to any child as it explains what goes on and helps the child feel more emotionally secure.
If you have a depressed kid or one that just seems woefully ignorant of how to handle the issues that he or she might be facing. Heartbeats and Other Stories by Peter D. Sieruta is a classic book about a set of twins that go through all of the issues such as temptation to suicide, teen pregnancy and feeling picked on or lonely. Most kids identify with the two main characters which is reassuring and educational for them.
If you have a new baby you will love the funny and helpful book by Edward R. Christophersen Baby Owner's Manual. The illustrations and photographs in this book are wonderful and will help ward off that case of post-partum depression after you have been up all night for months. It is always good to know that others have been through same stressful experiences that you have just after having a baby.