Toddlers and Depression

Believe it or not there is a rising epidemic of depression among toddlers in North America. It is depressing in itself to think that they can suffer from it at all but apparently many toddlers can get the blues.

Many studies conducted since the 1990s show that clinical depression is a disease that can attack all ages. Depression and thoughts of suicide can plague a child as young as two years old and torture them the same way they do an adult or teenager. 

An ongoing study being conducted by the National Institute of Mental Health and the Washington School of Medicine is finding that there are more toddlers and preschoolers with depression then we think. Their findings about toddlers and preschoolers with depression were so concerning that it has prompted a major Surgeon General Report to be conducted about the state of children's mental health in the United States. 

According to the National Mental Health Association, a whopping one in three children in the United suffers from depression.  The results of these types of studies are thought to be comparable to what is going on in other countries in the world.

 Unfortunately if your kid is depressed it can be a lot harder to diagnose then it is for an adult as so often it is interpreted as misbehavior stubbornness or even a low intelligence quotient. Like adults, toddlers and preschoolers lose all interest in activities that they used to enjoy when they are depressed. They also become lethargic, withdrawn and irritable. A depressed toddler may also cry a lot, lack enthusiasm be impatient and irritable and always be tired.

The child may also withdraw from favorite family, friends or activities. Toddlers that are depressed may also have trouble sleeping or sleep all day. Many of them suffer form excess weight gain or weight loss. The toddler who is depressed may whine more or need more attention. Frequent complaints of physical problems, such as stomachaches and headaches can also indicate depression. 

Depression in toddlers can also mimic learning disorders, regression, and lack of concentration and memory loss. In severe cases the child may talk morbidly or try to harm oneself or others during play. Trying to harm or a kill a pet is also a symptom.  If you see these symptoms take the kid to a doctor. It does not mean you are a bad parent! However before you rush your child to a doctor keep in mind that kids have ups and downs just like adults. The above symptoms become pathological when they begin to have some duration.

Displaying any of the above symptoms for a day is not the same as displaying them for weeks on end and that is what you mainly have to watch for.  According to a report done by the United States Surgeon General any child that displays depressed symptoms for more than two weeks needs to see a doctor. According to the same report the average duration of depression in a toddler usually lasts from seven to nine months.

Should Mummy Get a Tummy Tuck?

 Every wonder how all of those movie stars lose their post pregnancy paunch so fast? It's probably not through diet and exercise. It's probably because she got a tummy tuck. 

 It is unrealistic to think that you can lose the belly you get after birth immediately. It usually takes months of exercise for your body to recover after labor.  However if you are impatient you can get a tummy tuck, just like a celebrity would. Abdominoplasty, or a tummy tuck is an operation that costs between $4,000 and $6,000 and can help reduce the appearance of loose, sagging and flabby skin around the abdomen. The doctor removes flesh and fat and tightens stomach muscles.  Most plastic surgery magazines say that technically you should not even consider this operation after a pregnancy unless you are absolutely certain that your stomach muscles are not responding to diet and exercise.   

Most people however see getting a tummy tuck as a replacement for diet and exercise after getting pregnant. This isn't 'right' but it does save time.  However don't think about getting one if you are planning to gain weight, lose a lot of weight or become pregnant again in the future. One pregnancy will simply counteract all of the effects of the operating.  Depending on how much flesh and fat is going to be removed a tummy tuck can be performed as either an outpatient or inpatient procedure. It can be done with a sedative and local anesthetic but most people refer to be under general anesthesia as it is bloody.  The surgeon will m make one long cut from one hipbone to another. A second incision is then made to remove the navel skin from the abdominal wall. The skin is then clipped; repositions and the abdominal muscles are pulled tighter and stitched together.  After the skin is stretched over the abdomen a new opening is cut out of the flesh for the belly button and it is stitched. 

If you do think that a tummy tuck is the answer to a post baby belly bulge then you need to have realistic expectations. This is a serious medical procedure that will leave a big scar on your stomach.  You should also know that recover from this operation cane uncomfortable as there can be swelling that can last from a few weeks to a few months. Sometimes the entire stomach area can feel numb.  Also as is true of many different operations a tummy tuck can have complications such as loss of the belly button, hematoma, excessive bleeding, infection and scarring.Mild exercise like walking reduces inflammation and helps the body heal faster. If you are smoker you might also have a harder time responding to this type of cosmetic surgery. It is also never given to individuals under the age of eighteen. A cosmetic surgeon that agrees to do this operation on an obese minor or smoker  is probably not that great of a doctor.  However if you are a mummy you should probably not be smoking anyway!