Single Female Parent Dating Drags

There are many issues that are a widespread part of the single parent dating scene. The biggest of these concerns is probably childcare. This affects single moms worldwide.
The biggest drag–it can be hard to find a good babysitter! Most people have to place their children before any kind of dating and this can affect their own need to have sex or be loved.
Many single that go out on dates have their kids on their minds constantly. As a result have some trouble focusing on love. This type of person needs to learn how to live in the here and now and not be so anxious. If you cannot focus on the date then it will probably not lead to romance. Many candidates on the single parent dating scene are single because they have been burned by an ex partner. They are not in good shape emotionally. It may even take some women years to get into the dating scene again and it can be really difficult emotionally.
The thing that will help the single parent who is ready to love again the most is to get over his or her fear of what can happen. Trying to have a sense of humor about the past can help. In order for a single parent to have a healthy new relationship there must be some kind of attempt made to deal with any resentment from the past. It can be very difficult to allow yourself to be loved again butt is often the right thing to do, especially if you want your children to have a new mommy or daddy in their future. Betrayal and abandonment are huge emotional issues that many moms have to deal with and this attitude can hold you back from being happy in life if you are not careful.
Cougar dating makes sense to women because younger men just don't have the all the baggage and stuff and hang-ups that older men do. Younger men also tend to be less sexist. The younger a guy is the less likely he is to be paying child support, have several exes and all of that obnoxious stuff. Don't be afraid to date a younger man. He will get along better without the kids. Plus quite a few studies have shown that this is actuall

Should Little Girls Wear High Heels?

I must admit I am a little shocked by a photo I ran across lately. It was of little Suri Cruise, who is only three years old, strutting around in little white high heels.
Granted what she was wearing was a very classy and cute pair of heals. They were kind of high however. The heel looked to be almost two inches. The construction of the shoe was T-strap style but still I had to ask myself a couple of questions. Is this fashion for toddlers thing going too far? What is the deal with high heels on little people who have yet to grow bones? Could it actually stunt their growth.
The other disturbing thing is how sexual these shoes look on such a young child. It seems though that celebrity children can never be too young to be sexualized.
It seems that Disney is in on the act. My little girl talks all the time about how she wants some high heel Princess shoes. These are plastic clackers with big sequins and feathers on them that have a heel. I think they are a bit slippery and dangerous to walk in because the soles of them are smooth plastic. They are also cut a little sharply so with a very young girl I would be scared she cut her foot.
This is part of a larger trend towards sexualizing little girls and although I am not altogether for it I am not against it either because I do think that it helps girls develop their sexuality. However you are also seeing little girls turned into sex objects. Even their tiny glittery tops are low cut and a bit provocative. It makes you wonder if the design minds behind these kiddie fashion creations have ever heard of child molesters. Some of the fluffier dresses remind me of Jon Benet Ramsey wear.
I think Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes should know better. They must know as parents that what their little girl wears influences thousands of parents. People imitate the way celebrities dress. For the record I don't do anything that a celebrity does. I really do believe that a little kid should not be in high heels at the age of three. Maybe it is okay at age five if the kid has to wear those special tap dancing shoes that have a bit of kitten heel. Other than that it is not necessary.
Of course I am just assuming that it was her parents who chose these shoes for her. It could be that the child insisted on wearing them. However in my house I am the boss and the child does not tell me what she is going to wear during the day.