Avoiding the Flu

Why is it that some people succeed in avoiding getting the flu and others seem to get it every year? It may have more to do with your personal hygiene then getting the flu shot.

If you want to avoid contracting the bug during the flu season then the key is to continually wash your hands, especially if you have just visited a public place or shared any type of implement or tool with other people. The flu virus can live on places such as doorknobs, computer keyboards, coffee mugs and phone headsets so be sure to wash your hands after using any of these things with soap and water. You can also keep an antibacterial gel on hand to keep your hands clean while traveling.

Yet another way to keep yourself from contracting the flu bug is to keep your hands away from your eyes, ears, mouth and nose. If you encounter someone who has the flu or who has recently had it then be sure to avert your face if they sneeze or cough in your direction.

There are also some preventative supplements and vitamins you can take that can help fend off the flu. Ginseng is an herb that has been used for centuries in Asia to ward off the flu as well as shorten the duration of the illness once it has begun. Echinacea and Oil of Oregano can also be taken to help boost the immune system and fight off viruses.

It is also a good idea to take plenty of Vitamin C during the flu season. Taking 500 to 1000 mg has been shown to help the body fend off infection.

It is essential that you don't smoke or drink alcohol while ill with the flu as these substances weaken your immune system and also dehydrate you.

Don't take antibiotics unless they are absolutely necessary to treat another infection in your body. Antibiotics, which treat bacterial infections, can weaken your body's defenses when it comes to trying to fight a viral infection like the flu.

If the flu is diagnosed within 48 hours of when symptoms begin, especially if you are high risk for complications, taking antiviral medications may help shorten the length of symptoms by approximately a day.

In the past, doctors commonly prescribed the antiviral medication amantadine to treat this type of influenza. But in January 2006, the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention announced that neither drug should be used for such treatment as it was aiding the virus in mutating. Instead drugs such as Tamiflu and Rlenza may be used to treat the flu.

In most individuals who are otherwise healthy, the flu goes away within 7 to 10 days but it can be hard for a young kid to handle especially if they have asthma or another complicating problem.

Possible complications of the flu include pneumonia, encephalitis (which is an infection of the brain), bronchitis, sinus infections and ear infection, which is why it is important for you to keep your eye on your kids.

When Mom Needs a Time Out

Its not just kids that are bad. Sometimes mom gets cranky so she needs a time out. Kids do not tell Mom to take a time out. She tells herself it is time to go. However she does not sit in the corner. Instead she treats herself to a time out in spa or overnight at a hotel.

The reason time outs are so important for moms is that if she is not happy then nothing can go smoothly. Sometimes the pressure of being a mom is too much and for the good of everybody she needs to a bit of escaping. She does not have to do it often. Maybe a time out is only necessary every three to six months. It really does depend on the individual and how much is going on in life. After all it is extremely important for Mom not to neglect to take care of herself. That is because it is her role to provide a safe stable home environment. If you have sole custody and your ex-husband lives far away, you play both roles of Mom and Dad. It can be very draining financially and physically.

Mom desperately needs a separate identity and life from her children or she will talk in baby talk all day. When your children are adolescents it is not as hard as they don't want as much to do with you anyway. They may even spend a lot of time avoiding you.

Although having children is a blessing you also need a break from them every now and then. If you can't take a big break then you might want to make sure you have a hobby you would like to be involved in. You might also want to make sure you link up regularly with friends. It also helps to get a babysitter or get your mom to watch the kids and go on a day trip every now and then. Visit places that you have always wanted to go to.

You have to put yourself first every once and a while as that is really essential, to remaining a healthy, stable person.

Personally I like to get a sitter for a night and a day and check into a nearby hotel. It is just downtown and the hotel has a spa. If something happens to the kids I am only about twenty minutes away. I try to time my escapes during times in my life when other people, like their Dad, are around to take care of the children. I never take a time out when a c held is sick or in a crisis. That is not the point.

If I am really stressed but can't get away I lock my bedroom door and take a nap. Or I take a long relaxing bath with the door locked. Taking just a few hours every now and then to myself does wonders fro my mood which of course always results in better behavior from the children.