Herbs For Stress Relief and Depression

The term stress is very broad and refers to any reaction to a physical, mental, or emotional stimulus that upsets the body's natural balance. Suffering stress is and always has been a necessary evil if you want to survive. The better you tolerate stress the more you will thrive.  And the more you are able to tolerate stress the better mom you will make.

 

As stress does affect many organs and systems there are quite a few herbs that can be taken to help you deal with it. Also each individual is affected by stress in their own way depending on where they have a weak disposition in their body. For instance some people are more likely to develop a stomachache and others are more likely to become anxious or dissociated when under stress.

 

The following herbs may help you deal with stress –

 

·        Bilberry – Helps prevents the destruction, mutation and premature death of cells

·        Catnip – Relieves stress and promotes sleepiness

·        Chamomile – A general relaxant that is a good nerve tonic, is soothing to the digestive tract and is a pleasant sleep aid.

·        Dong Quai – Supports the kidney and adrenal glands, which are always adversely affected by stress.

·        Ginkgo Biloba – Helps keep clarity of thought in stressful situations

·        Hops – Eases nervousness, restlessness and stress

·        Jujube Seed – Chinese herb that remedies depression

·        Kava Kava – Relaxes the mind as well as the entire body

·        Milk Thistle – Helps cleanse and protect the liver which is affected by stress

·        Passion Flower – Calming and used specifically for stress

·        Polygala root – Soothing and calming Chinese herb

·        Rehmannia – Supports the kidneys, adrenal glands and nervous system.

·        Schizandra – Supports the kidneys, adrenal glands and nervous system

·        Skullcap – Can be taken at night to promote sleep and relieve anxiety

·        Valerian – Can be taken to promote sleep and prevent panic attacks.

 

Depression is a whole body illness that has an entire host of physical symptoms that can be manifested by the mind. Symptoms include fatigue, sleep disturbances, changes in appetite, headaches, backaches, digestive disorders, restlessness, irritability and feelings of inadequacy and suicide.

 

Keep in mind too that depression can also be the body's way of letting you know that you have a serious illness so be sure to see a doctor if you encounter any of these symptoms.

 

Herbs that may help depression are

 

·        Lemon Balm – May help with the digestive disorders that occur with depression

·        Ginger – Helps with depression related digestive disorders

·        Ginkgo Biloba – Helps increase circulation to the brain and may elevate mood

·        Kava Kava – A natural antidepressant that may help elevate your mood

·        Siberian Ginseng – May elevate the mood. Don't use this if you have high blood pressure!

·        St. Johnswort – A natural antidepressant that may help elevate your mood

 

Keep in mind that you should never take any of the herbs mentioned above if you are already taking a prescribed anti-depressant.

History of the Baby Shower

Nowadays it is customary for the Baby Shower to be thrown before the birth of the baby. These events are planned anywhere from six-months to just a couple of days before the blessed event. Probably the optimum time to throw a party is in the third trimester of pregnancy, but not too close to the actually expected birth date. This spares the mother undue stress, as even happy stress can take its toll. It also gives her time to sort out and put away her loot.
Then of course there are those babies that arrive early and show up as an unexpected guest at their own baby shower!

Although it is traditional to throw the baby shower before birth, it is still perfectly acceptable to suggest that a baby shower be thrown after the baby is born. It is especially acceptable to suggest this if for some reason, nobody else has volunteered to engineer the event. Showers are also thrown after the adoption of a child and in this case, the child can be much older than an infant.

The baby shower has come along ways from the days when it was never thrown before the baby’s birth. This presumption was based on an old superstition, that all of the presents and celebration might attract they eye of Lilith, an evil angel, who may spirit the baby’s soul away. The sad truth is that most babies did pass away during birth so nobody wanted to celebrate something that may not happen.

Showers have also mutated over the years into Jack and Jill events, where both sexes, including the father of the child and his friends, are invited to celebrate along with the girls. Unlike women’s baby showers, which have a focus on games, these showers are more about circulating with family and friends and sharing a good meal in honor of the expectant mother. It is the most contemporary way of holding a shower and furthermore there does not have to be a diaper pin or baby shower game in sight!

It is also traditional to throw the shower at a best friend or relative’s house, rather than at the expectant mother’s house to spare her the hassle of a mess to clean up the next day. It also gives her privilege of being able to say good-bye and leave the party. She may feel the need to rest, rather than feel pressured to entertain guests who are in no hurry to leave. However some mothers do feel more comfortable at home and throwing it at her house may save her a lot of transportation and the hauling around of her goodies. Rule of thumb — when in doubt be sure to ask the mom to be if she wants a shower at her house. The answer could be no!